Bleep!
Kuku blog master is back. Sorry I didn't blog yesterday as promised. I was down with food poisoning. On bed and in the toilet whole day and night, only had an apple for the whole of yesterday. Don't think about it le ok? Let bygones be bygones.
Complications about relationships....
Jealousy such an easy word yet it is so complicated in meaning. There are many reasons we feel jealous and though it is a normal human emotion to feel, it tends to get out of control if we fail to control it. However, there is always a cause for jealousy. When you are feeling jealous, it is hard for you to understand the reason of your jealousy, but you'll always pause and ponder why you feel this way.
Is it due to our own self-esteem, or does this special someone of yours makes you feel this way? Jealousy controls your self-esteem, therefore it is important for you to figure it out and conquer it.
An example would be when talking to an opposite sex, why would it make you feel jealous? Afraid and fear of being betrayed? If so, why does this fear exist in you? We can see that there is a lot of questions coming up with just one word "jealousy". Firstly we need to acknowledge it well before moving on. Without understanding the reason of your jealousy you will never succeed in overthrowing your fear.
After understanding where your jealousy comes from, you can start keeping it in control and hopefully get rid of it. If it has something to do with your partner, then it is best to share it with them instead of lying and keeping it to yourself. You have the right to express yourself and they are entitled to knowing what is making you feel jealous.This way,there would never be any misunderstanding in your relationship and confusion inbetween. If they true to you, they will work on ways to prevent you from experiencing such emotions.
Toning down your jealousy and possibly getting rid of it for good will take time. It all depends on the situations and reasons. However, if your jealousy is coming from a different area such as your competitive nature towards other women,
then it will be more difficult. It is very common for women to feel jealous of each other physique, success and relationships. The best way to fight this jealousy off is to do things that boost your confidence.
Learning how to handle your jealous emotions will be a huge influence on how your situations will turn out. Combine your jealousy with a more rational emotion so that you can keep it from going overboard. If you combined it with an equally or
almost equally stressful emotion such as anger, you will only push yourself back from reaching the outcomes you really want and are looking for. You could end up making a decision that will leave you feeling worse.
Complications about relationships....
Jealousy such an easy word yet it is so complicated in meaning. There are many reasons we feel jealous and though it is a normal human emotion to feel, it tends to get out of control if we fail to control it. However, there is always a cause for jealousy. When you are feeling jealous, it is hard for you to understand the reason of your jealousy, but you'll always pause and ponder why you feel this way.
Is it due to our own self-esteem, or does this special someone of yours makes you feel this way? Jealousy controls your self-esteem, therefore it is important for you to figure it out and conquer it.
An example would be when talking to an opposite sex, why would it make you feel jealous? Afraid and fear of being betrayed? If so, why does this fear exist in you? We can see that there is a lot of questions coming up with just one word "jealousy". Firstly we need to acknowledge it well before moving on. Without understanding the reason of your jealousy you will never succeed in overthrowing your fear.
After understanding where your jealousy comes from, you can start keeping it in control and hopefully get rid of it. If it has something to do with your partner, then it is best to share it with them instead of lying and keeping it to yourself. You have the right to express yourself and they are entitled to knowing what is making you feel jealous.This way,there would never be any misunderstanding in your relationship and confusion inbetween. If they true to you, they will work on ways to prevent you from experiencing such emotions.
Toning down your jealousy and possibly getting rid of it for good will take time. It all depends on the situations and reasons. However, if your jealousy is coming from a different area such as your competitive nature towards other women,
then it will be more difficult. It is very common for women to feel jealous of each other physique, success and relationships. The best way to fight this jealousy off is to do things that boost your confidence.
Learning how to handle your jealous emotions will be a huge influence on how your situations will turn out. Combine your jealousy with a more rational emotion so that you can keep it from going overboard. If you combined it with an equally or
almost equally stressful emotion such as anger, you will only push yourself back from reaching the outcomes you really want and are looking for. You could end up making a decision that will leave you feeling worse.